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Work With Reina

Private Coaching for Women Who Lead, Hold, and Carry Much More Than They Show

You’re the one people rely on.
The composed one.
The capable one.

You lead, manage, create, perform, or hold responsibility, often in visible or high-stakes environments. You’re trusted because you’re steady. You’re admired because you’re thoughtful. And yet, much of the emotional labor still lands on you.

You’ve learned how to hold everything together.


What you haven’t always learned is how to let yourself be held without guilt, without over-explaining, without shrinking.

This work is for you if success hasn’t solved the deeper misalignment.


If relationships still require too much effort.
If you’re done carrying more than your share quietly.

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You’re Not Lacking Insight

You’re already self-aware.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve listened to the podcasts.
You may have done years of therapy.

You understand why you are the way you are.

And still...some patterns don’t move.

You may notice yourself:

  • Over-functioning in relationships

  • Managing emotional dynamics that aren’t yours

  • Explaining yourself when you’d rather choose

  • Feeling responsible for keeping things smooth, calm, or intact

This work is not about learning more.
It’s about recalibrating how your nervous system responds, so clarity, boundaries, and authority return naturally.

This Is Not Traditional Coaching

This is not motivational work.
And it’s not performance-based healing.

You won’t be asked to push, prove, or relive your story endlessly.

This work is somatic, relational, and precise.


We focus on real-time pattern shifts, not insight without embodiment.
We prioritize discernment, regulation, and quiet authority over intensity.

The goal is simple:

  • Less internal noise

  • Cleaner decisions

  • Relationships that feel mutual

  • A steadiness you don’t have to maintain

And over time, something else becomes familiar.

You begin to feel what it’s like to be supported without asking.


To be met with care, not correction.
To be treated with respect, not effort.

You stop bracing for disappointment.
You stop managing connection.

A steadiness returns,
not because you’re holding everything together,
but because you no longer have to.

Clients’ Reflections

Real words from those who stepped into this work:

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“Working with Reina helped me feel more connected to my voice than I’ve ever been.”

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“I didn’t even realize how much I was carrying until we started. Now, I don’t feel like I’m disappearing anymore.”

A Note on How I Work
 

I practiced as a psychotherapist for over a decade, supporting more than 500 clients through cultural wounds, relational trauma, generational patterns, and quiet burnout.

 

As a coach, I bring that same depth
with more space, more precision, and more respect for your autonomy.

I work intuitively and relationally. I don’t just listen, I attune.
Because of this, I work with a small number of clients at a time.

This allows the work to stay contained, private, and deeply personalized,
especially for women who are visible, successful, or carry responsibility in public or high-impact roles.

Choose Your Path Forward

Whether you're ready for a single breakthrough or long-term transformation, here are two ways to begin:

One-Time Session:
The Deep Dive Reset

One session. One powerful shift.
$1000

This 60-minute private intensive is designed for moments when something feels stuck, heavy, or unclear and you want clarity without spiraling.

 

We identify what your body is holding, release the pressure, and clarify a grounded next step that feels clean and doable.

This is ideal if you want:

  • Immediate nervous-system relief

  • Clarity around a specific relationship or decision

  • Language for what you already sense but haven’t named

*This is a complete, one-time session. You’re not committing to anything beyond it.

You’ll leave with:

  • A noticeable sense of calm and clarity

  • Language to express what’s true for you without guilt

  • A grounded next step without forcing

Included

  • One 60-minute session

Coaching Packages

If you’re craving a deeper transformation, one that rewires how you show up in life and relationships, apply here and schedule a free consultation. Coaching packages require a free consult to ensure we’re the right fit.

Private 1:1 Relationship Coaching Monthly Retainer (3-Month Minimum)

The foundational container for embodied sovereignty

This is for the woman who succeeds everywhere… except love.


You’re tired of being the “steady one,” the over-functioner, the fixer, the one who carries the emotional weight.

This is private, high-touch coaching to shift the power dynamic without losing yourself.

This is not a “course.”
This is a private coaching relationship, built for real-time change.

What You Get Each Month

3 private sessions / month

  • 60 minutes each (Zoom)

  • Scheduled with consistency so you’re not doing this alone “in between”

Voice message support (Mon–Fri)

  • Send a voice note when you’re triggered, spiraling, or about to over-explain

  • Response within 24 business hours (9am-5pm)

  • Clear boundaries (supportive, not 24/7)

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Real-life script + boundary support

  • What to say (and what not to say) in the moment

  • Help with texts, hard conversations, repair attempts, and “pulling your energy back” without guilt

Your personalized relationship blueprint

  • We map your pattern: what you do, what you tolerate, how you lose yourself

  • Then we build a new way to stay steady without self-abandoning

What This Is Designed to Shift

  • You stop over-functioning to keep the relationship stable

  • You can ask directly without collapsing into guilt

  • You hold your standards without over-explaining

  • You stop confusing anxiety with love

  • You become emotionally steady even when someone else is disappointed

  • You learn what “mutual effort” actually feels like in your body

 

Who This Is For

This is for you if:

  • You’re high-achieving and self-aware, but your love life still drains you

  • You’ve done therapy/coaching before and you’re tired of “understanding” without change

  • You want a relationship where you’re met without performing for it

  • You want privacy, discretion, and direct support

 

 

This is not for you if:

  • You want a passive program with no implementation

  • You want unlimited access with no boundaries

  • You’re looking for couples therapy (I only coach individuals in this container)

 

Investment Options

Monthly Retainer: $3,500/month (3-month minimum)
Pay in Full (Quarter): $10,000 for 3 months (save $500)

Quick FAQ

Is this therapy?
No. This is private coaching. It’s practical, relational, and somatic-informed—but not psychotherapy.

What does voice message support look like?
You send a voice note Mon–Fri. I respond within 24 business hours. It’s designed for real-life moments—before you spiral, over-explain, or self-abandon.

Can I do month-to-month right away?
There’s a 3-month minimum because the work needs enough time to actually rewire patterns—not just “feel better for a week.”

What if I’m single?
Perfect. We’ll rewire the pattern before the next relationship starts, so you don’t repeat it.

Private Recalibration

Invitation-only, high-level private work
 

This container is for you if you are already successful, capable, and resourced
and you know something in your relational or internal world is ready for refinement.

This is not crisis support.

This is discreet, high-level recalibration for women who want to:

  • Reduce internal friction

  • Make decisions without internal debate

  • Shift relational dynamics without confrontation

  • Move with quiet authority instead of effort

This work is private, contained, and selective.

Investment Options:

  • $15,000

  • 2 payments of $7,500

Details are shared through a private consultation.

Not Sure Yet?

Let’s explore together. Book a free 20-minute consult to talk through what you’re carrying, what you’re needing, and whether coaching feels like the right next step

If something in this page resonated, trust that. I welcome your application.

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